Insomnia As I Age

I woke up last night around 2:30 am and I was AWAKE. I lay there for a few minutes and realized I would not be falling asleep again anytime soon. This happens now and again. I have no idea why.  Occasional trouble sleeping is a problem which arrived to me in my fifties. I try … Read more

Apocalypse Now, Tennis Version — Exiled to “5.0 Siberia”!

I was teaching my second period class this morning when I received the text. A friend informed me I had been booted up to the NTRP 5.0 tennis level for the next year by the United States Tennis Association. “Noooooo!” I had seen this happen to others. They are moved up to the higher 5.0 … Read more

“Daylight Savings Time” Ends: The Rhythm of the Seasons Change, but Exercise and Books Are a Constant

Two days ago, on November 7th, 2021, we ended daylight savings time. Now it gets dark as soon as 5:00 pm. That is early. This is what is on my mind tonight. The change in time has got me a bit off my game. The clock says it is 7:30 pm but it feels like … Read more

Choosing to Be Positive and to Enjoy the Day: Reflections on A Sunday Morning and “Doomerism”

A day in the life — Sunday September 17, 2021.  A snapshot into my daily existence. An exposition on the choices we all make on how we choose to live. I woke up yesterday and went to the grocery store with my wife, who needed milk to make pancakes for our daughters for Sunday morning … Read more

Cross Country, the Teacher: Pain Tolerance as a Valuable Life Skill

Last weekend I was at the PAC-12 tennis championships in Ojai, CA with my daughter and father where we saw the UCLA men’s team defeat USC. As we watched these incredible student athletes compete, my father asked me the following: “Do you regret the decision to stop playing tennis, Richard? You could perhaps have been one of … Read more

My “Guardian Angels”

I recently finished Gerald Marzorati’s new book, “Late to the Ball: Age. Learn. Fight. Love. Play Tennis. Win.” I enjoyed the tennis references, of course, but what I most enjoyed were the meditations about retirement and aging, friendship and connection — and on learning to do anything new and grow in the process. For Marzorati, this … Read more

Riding the Malibu Canyons Again

A BLISSFUL AFTERNOON: A PHOTO ESSAY“Oh, how I love to escape to the Malibu canyons for a bike ride!.” In the late morning of November 15, 2009 I drove to the Malibu canyons to ride along the Santa Monica Mountains. It has been a long time since I had been here. Before marriage and larger … Read more

What a Pain in the Ear!

Of Bees and Men: A Tragic Collision OUCH! If a person bicycles enough, they accumulate stories. Most of the time I bike through the desert canyons and citrus fields of Ventura County without incident. It is just me and the occasional car passing by on a rural highway. My legs work, my lungs burn, and … Read more